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Flipping the Switch – Taking Your Life Off
Autopilot
by Jeffrey T. Brownstein, CEC
I bet when you woke up this morning, you had a pretty good
idea of how your day would unfold. You'd take a shower, go
to work, watch television – whatever it is you routinely
do without much thought. It's kind of like being on autopilot.
You already know certain events will transpire, even before
they happen. What we often forget though, is that we are
constantly making choices – about EVERYTHING – even
if those choices are passive, and even when we don't think
we have any choice at all.
So what time do you flip on the autopilot switch in the
morning? If you're like most people, chances are this happens
somewhere
between the moment your eyes open to when you're brushing
your teeth! We jump into the flow, sort of like riding a
breeze, not quite sure where we'll end up – observing
and reacting during the course of our day – and when
it's over, we're often left unwinding and de-stressing, so
we can do it all again tomorrow. Sounds like fun, no?
Don't get me wrong, there's a lot to be said for a comfortable
routine. Going with the flow is fabulous – as long
as you've pre-paved your destination. And certain habits
serve us well (for example getting dressed, eating meals,
and such). If we were to intensely focus on everything, we
likely wouldn't have the energy to accomplish those things
which are truly important to us. The problem arises, though,
when our entire day passes as a sort of unconscious blur – when
we give the same muted attention to moments that could be
life-transforming as we do to combing our hair.
Remember, when it comes to Law of Attraction, what you
give your energy and focus to is what you receive. Everything
you have in your life right now, you have created – the
good, the bad, and the mundane. So the question worth asking
is, “Do you have everything you want?” If you
do, you probably don't need to read any further. But if you
have this feeling that there might be something more – something
that, should it 'pop,' would make your life wildly fulfilling – then
keep reading, because it won't take a huge effort to shift
what shows up in your life.
One technique I use to break the pattern of living by default – and
take back the controls of my life – is taking 5-10
minutes before I go to sleep to “create my day.” (Those
of you who have seen What The Bleep Do We Know may be familiar
with the premise.) I work with four distinct areas in life
which are important to me: career, health, relationships,
and spirituality. (You can work with any, and as many, areas
as you wish.) I consciously let the Universe know what I
wish to have happen in each area for the following day. (Of
course, you can do this in the morning when you wake up if
you prefer.) When I'm complete, I let everything go, leaving
the “hows” to the Universe. That's a critical
piece to the Law of Attraction puzzle. Your only job is to
declare what you want, and believe you will receive it. Then
it's up to the Universe to deliver it in the best way possible.
Now if this sounds at all like meditation, it is – sort
of. But for those of you who shudder at the mere mention
of “meditation,”' I'll let you in on a personal
secret. Meditating (in the traditional sense) holds about
as much excitement for me as watching grass grow. All I'm
basically doing is taking a few minutes to consciously focus,
and really get in tune with what I want. By doing so, I'm
raising my vibrational level in order to quickly manifest
what I desire. In fact, any time you find yourself off course
during your day, it helps to bring yourself back to the question “What
do I want?” When you do, you'll find your vibration
almost instantly leaps to higher ground.
Once you get into the habit (see, habits can be good!)
of creating each day, you'll find the world will show up
differently
for you. At first, the changes may seem subtle – small “coincidences” you
notice that bring you slightly closer to what you've asked
for. With some fine-tuning, those small events will become
bigger serendipities. It will feel like the Universe is lining
up for you, laying down a red carpet, and inviting you to
step forward. It's not magic, but it can certainly feel that
way!
So flipping the switch – shifting from autopilot to
taking control of you life – is actually very simple.
It only requires some conscious creation, paying attention
to what unfolds around you, then taking action which moves
you closer to all you desire. The nice thing about Law of
Attraction is you've pretty much been doing this all along – remember,
you've already been attracting everything. The difference
is now you become a deliberate creator, rather than crossing
your fingers and hoping things turn out OK. I can make you
a guarantee: no matter what you do, things will always turn
out OK. But when you harness Law of Attraction, you gain
the power to create exactly what you want. So grab the controls
and really fly! Join Jeff for VIBE OVERHAUL Workshop, April 26, 10am-2pm
and the 6 Week follow up Course. More info: http://www.artofwellbeing.com/springworkshopinfo.php#vibe
Jeffrey T. Brownstein is a Certified Empowerment Coach (CEC),
specializing in The Law of Attraction, and founder of Lifescaper
Coaching, LLC. He has Bachelor's degrees in English and
Metaphysics, and is also a professional speaker, Certified
Energy Healer, Holistic Health Consultant, Landmark Education
Graduate, and has been a Group Exercise Instructor for
over 13 years. Jeff resides with his wife, Allison, in
Greensboro, NC, and is working on a book about harnessing
the power of The Law of Attraction. For more information,
please visit www.lifescaper.com. To schedule a 30-minute
complimentary Law of Attraction coaching session, call
888.262.6999 or e-mail info@lifescaper.com.
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