I’ve been thinking about how we deal with the increased visibility that often accompanies personal expansion. When we change, and especially when that entails ‘branching out’ in some way, we open ourselves up to judgment and criticism. The prospect of that can be more than a little off-putting. I know that for me, I have […]
How to Survive doing Enneagram Assessments as a New-ish Coach*
*Or self-coach, or supportive friend/family member. It is one thing to appreciate the immense utility of the Enneagram as a developmental map. It is quite another to apply it to the specific terrain of a challenged human being. As a graduate of the Integral Coaching method, I can do complexity. However, I’d be fibbing if […]
6 Lessons I Learned through Mistyping on the Enneagram
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear. When the student is truly ready, the teacher disappears.”Lao Tzu When one of the Enneagram community’s most distinguished teachers called into question my type earlier this year, I found myself being openly defensive. This was disturbing to me. And also, intriguing! At the time, I considered […]
Integrating Polarities using the Enneagram
Lately, I have been reflecting on an indirect benefit of my study of the Enneagram. There is a more systemic quality to my thinking. Also, studying the Enneagram is training me to think less in terms of absolutes. One of the reasons for that is that learning the Enneagram helps us to see the cognitive […]
How to Orient towards Fulfilment of Deep Relational Needs
Exploring Relational Blueprints Whatever you think you need from another you already contain within you. If you would commit to authentically finding that first, the whole basis of the relationship may shift from scarcity to abundance.Educare Unlearning Institute: ‘Where to Start’ Note: I’m indebted to Belinda Gore’s teachings on the Enneagram with Object Relations theory […]
Enrolment for a Course in the Enneagram is now Open!
Coping mechanisms and addictions show up everywhere. You know when you can absolutely count on them showing up? When we’re tailgating the Unknown. Think about what happens to you when you’re at your edge. What coping mechanisms show up in those moments? I’ve spent this past month or so attempting to be proficient at various […]