An introvert is someone who is naturally more inclined to focus on the inner or subjective aspect of reality than the outer or objective one. Everyone is a bit introverted, but for around half of us, an introverted cognitive process (we’ll get to it) is dominant. It’s been suggested that introverts have a harder time […]
‘I’m Not Sure Why I’m Telling You This’
Please, don’t stress. You’re probably telling me because I asked, and because of how intently I am listening for the answer (including what’s between and beyond the words). People tell me personal stuff all the time. Complex perspectives that are not usually so readily shared; reflections on past, present, future challenges. I am the privileged […]
How to Develop your Strengths and Be your Best Self
How to develop your strengths and become your best self is an avenue with many alleys, so let me be clear on which direction we are taking with this. This post offers a personalized approach to the challenge of developing your strengths. First, it looks at how to discover your ‘flow’ and ‘non-flow’ strengths, as […]
A Guide to the 4 Love Styles
What, there are only four love styles? C’mon. You’ve had more than four already. I know. But bear with me, as this theory has backing from psychology. The four love styles emerge from the four observable evaluative/judging criteria all humans use, and which silently influence how we each ask and respond to the question, ‘do […]
How to Realize your Intuitive Abilities, as an Intuitive Learner
As the title should tell you, this post is about intuition in terms of learning styles, as distinct from other types of intuition. If you have already identified yourself as an intuitive learner, then perfect. If you have the other learning style (‘sensing’) and you are choosing to read this, then excellent: I like your style. […]
How to Get the Most from Myers Briggs (Some Do’s and Don’t’s)
If you believe that the value in Myers Briggs personality assessment ends with figuring out your four letter type, you are missing out on the true value of the model. And also, if you approached assessment in the standard way – by doing an online test – you may not even have identified your correct […]